Thursday, December 28, 2017

weekly theme :: COMMUNITY



Author: Ryan Thompson

"The journey of self identity does not stop with our own self knowledge and our own personal practices. We have explored family systems to understand the etiology of our interpersonal relationship patterns. We have discussed raising awareness and implementing strategies to increase interpersonal competence. Now we look at how we take this personal self knowledge and apply it into wisdom in order to take it to the next stage of recovery; the community. What do we do within our own groups, how do we behave, how do we contribute? Communities and groups are part of our lives and are the playground in which we navigate life. In order for a full rehabilitation we must look at how we engage with the community now and for the future. How do we assist clients with taking their self knowledge and personal wisdom and apply it to the connections they have for their immediate community as well as the communities they will become a part of." 



Call or contact Zen Recovery Path. Our community welcomes a fresh start. Recovery will be inspired with Art Projects, Kung Fu Classes, Tai Chi, Music group and Movie with Meaning therapies.

126 E. 16th St., Costa Mesa, CA 92627
(800) 759-1930

Monday, December 18, 2017

weekly theme :: REBIRTH




The idea of rebirth is ancient. Throughout time immemorial, myths and legends speak of man’s process of birth, death and rebirth into a new life. Why is this process of appearance, decline and renewal so firmly etched on our conscious and unconscious thoughts? 
The list of gods, demi-gods and man who have traveled the path of rebirth are as varied and countless as the stars in the sky. To name a few:
The Phoenix
Osiris
Baldr
Adonis
Dionysus
Attis
Vayu
Quetzalcoatl
Tammuz
Shiva
Persephone
Izanami
Ishtar
And on and on…
It is vital to view this concept of rebirth though the lens of non-literal interpretation. Reading these death/rebirth stories and myths as literal events can be dangerous and vexing. However, when viewed with the same sensibilities as Carl Jung or Joseph Campbell, a whole world of personal growth, psychoanalysis and psychology opens up, like voices from long ago sharing secrets that have endured centuries, yet teeter on the precipice of forgotten knowledge. 
All of us experience death and rebirth. Letting go of addiction is a small death, yet carving out a new life free from bondage is a grand rebirth. Experiencing trauma feels like something has died, yet leaving these traumas on the alters of the past (where the belong) is an embrace of the present moment.  Relationships that die, only to be replaced by new experiences of connection and love. These cycles are something we all deal with on a daily basis and by drawing up these old stories from this inexhaustible well, we can reach new levels of understanding ourselves, thereby quenching our enduring thirst. The cycles of birth and death are all around us and this becomes all the more poignant for someone in early recovery who is in the process of reinventing themselves, starting over, putting their pasts behind them and breathing fresh air into an old pattern of suffocation and stagnation.


Call or contact Zen Recovery Path. Our community welcomes a fresh start. Recovery will be inspired with Art Projects, Kung Fu Classes, Tai Chi, Music group and Movie with Meaning therapies.

126 E. 16th St., Costa Mesa, CA 92627
(800) 759-1930

Monday, December 4, 2017

weekly theme :: SELF LOVE





Author: Zen Recovery Path

We are doing something a little bit different with this week's theme.
Watch video for explanation

Transcription:
(Character: Samurai Man)
Oh, hello! So, this week instead of writing out a theme (bad writers block) but now this time what we do is a video, very modern, very good. Yes. OK. I start to sound uh too much like a Cookie Monster. OK. Anyway. This weeks theme the clients came to me and they said to me they said, Samurai Man, we have big problem with self-love. Can you help us with loving ourselves? And I said you have come to the right person. For I am a master of the self love. So, by unanimous client choice this week we going to teach them how to do the self-love. You have to look deep within yourself too. To find the love that you also have for yourself. Goodbye and good luck.


Call or contact Zen Recovery Path. Our community welcomes a fresh start. Recovery will be inspired with Art Projects, Kung Fu Classes, Tai Chi, Music group and Movie with Meaning therapies.

126 E. 16th St., Costa Mesa, CA 92627
(800) 759-1930

Monday, November 20, 2017

weekly theme :: GRATITUDE

 


One of my favorite descriptions of what Gratitude means to me comes from the book Consolations by David Whyte.  He writes:


Gratitude is not a passive response to something we have been given, gratitude arises from paying attention, from being awake in the presence of everything that lives within and without us.  Gratitude is not necessarily something that is shown after the event, it is the deep, a priori state of attention that shows we understand and are equal to the gifted nature of life. 
Gratitude is the understanding that many millions of things come together and live together and mesh together and breathe together in order for us to take even one more breath of air, that the underlying gift of life and incarnation as a living participating human being is privilege; that we are miraculously part of something rather than nothing.  Even if that something is temporarily pain or despair, we inhabit a living world, with real faces, real voices, laughter, the color blue, the green of fields, the freshness of a cold wind, or the tawny hue of a winter landscape.
To see the full miraculous essentiality of the color blue is to be grateful with no necessity for a word of thanks.  TO see fully, the beauty of a daughter’s face is to be fully grateful without having to seek a God to thank him.  To sit among friends and strangers, hearing many voices, strange opinions; to intuit inner lives beneath surface lives, to inhabit many worlds at once in this world, to be a someone amongst all other someone’s, and therefore to make a conversation without saying a word, is to deepen our sense of presence and therefore our natural sense of thankfulness that everything happens both with us and without us, that we are participants and witness all at once.
Thankfulness finds its full measure in generosity of presence, both through participation and witness.  We sit at the table as part of every other person’s world while making our own world without will or effort, this is what is extraordinary and gifted, this is the essence of gratefulness, seeing to the heart of privilege.  Thanksgiving happens when our sense of presence meets all other presences.  Being unappreciative might mean we are simply not paying attention.

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

weekly theme :: FAMILY DYNAMICS




Author: Sifu Matt Carver

In preparation for the Thanksgiving holiday, this week's theme will focus on Family Dynamics.  Let's incorporate the genogram and have clients reflect on what their ideal family environment looks and feels like and how they can play a part in nurturing the ideal family environment for the holidays.  Here's some motivation from our Clinical Director/Therapist, Ryan Thompson.

As humans, relationships are integral to just about every aspect of our lives. What has been the quality of those relationships? Early in life, our family of origin, whether it be in a nuclear family, adoptive family, or institutions such as boarding homes or foster homes have been our first experiences of learning to engage in relationships. These early experiences of family dynamics often have a lasting impact on the quality, types and patterns of our future relationships. Maybe some relationships have been healthy and supportive while others have been a source of pain, mistrust, disappointment and sadness. These relationships are a significant factor in the formation of our lenses of perception. If our relationships have been of a toxic origin, how do we change them, how do we become aware that "normal and expected" is often a formulated perception based upon familiarity even if toxic or volatile relationships is the norm. 
In life, we will run into other people moving on their path of life whom have developed their own relationship styles, systems and strategies. In order to stop repeating toxic and maladaptive relationship patterns that maintain substance use disorders through codependency, enabling, resentments, in-authenticity and manipulation we must raise awareness of the dynamics we have learned from our early family experiences. Then we must learn the characteristics and techniques that lead to healthy relationship dynamics such as trust, respect, effective communication, authenticity and how to set healthy boundaries. As we move forward in life and as we meet the other people on their journey we have an opportunity to forge relationships that are made of denser and more reliable material.

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

ZEN RECOVERY PATH OPEN HOUSE



Thank you for attending Zen Recovery path's Open House. It was a big success. We invited all healers, helpers and professionals in the substance abuse treatment community to join hands in the united effort to extinguish addiction. 

The attendance was generous and the Ane Thanh Lion Dance took the audience's breath away.
We look forward to seeing everyone next year for the "JOIN OUR HANDS" annual program which hopes to create a network that can use their combined intentions to put an end to the opioid epidemic that currently plagues the United States. Your support is helping provide critical assistance to those in need, their families and entire communities. On behalf of those that benefit from your caring, thank you for your support.

With Appreciation,
Sifu Matt Carver













Monday, November 6, 2017

weekly theme :: INSPIRATION






Author: Sifu Matt Carver

Ask yourself, "What is my Why?" 

Inspiration comes in many forms. Getting inspired by something or someone get our hearts and minds focused on a single subject. This is great practice for folks with scattered thoughts and lingering ADD. Early in recovery, it is hard to get excited about anything. Our brain receptors are a little fried from over use. But as we begin to settle back into who we are, inspiration becomes a welcomed old friend.

Now, waiting around to be inspired is a little presumptuous. I find when you take a step back and ask yourself, "Why?" the discovery begins. Besides, inspiration can be cultivated and accentuated. Putting ourselves in new creative environments and surrounding ourselves with inspiring people helps propagate inspiration in our own lives.

Getting sober can feel like a backwards fall into boredom and dullsville. But it doesn’t have to be. Finding ways to get excited about life begins as a practice and a routine. Exploring different cultures, or music you never listen to, or learning a language or taking a dance class. Engaging in these new pursuits and flights of inspiration help fill the void left in early sobriety. Often times it is not just the drugs and alcohol that disappears, but an entire lifestyle and identity. Rebuilding this bedrock and filling this vacancy will require inspiration (and some footwork).

Sharing what gets us personally excited is one way to help others find their spark for life. Trying new things and experiences is another. This week let’s have discussions about what makes life so rich and inviting. What makes us want to engage and create? Help our clients rediscover that zest for life that addiction and compulsive behavior extinguished.


Call or stop by Zen Recovery Path. We will be inspired with Art Projects, Kung Fu Classes, Tai Chi, Music group and Movie with Meaning.

126 E. 16th St., Costa Mesa, CA 92627
(800) 759-1930


Monday, October 30, 2017

Zen Recovery Path :: Art Therapy :: Halloween




Author: Sifu Matt Carver

Expressive Pumpkins.
The Use of Art Therapy in the Addiction Treatment Process


Art therapy is a form of experiential therapy, an approach to recovery that addresses emotional and spiritual needs through creative or physical activity. It is not necessary to have a background in the arts or artistic talent to participate; individuals only need to be open to the experience and to engage actively to benefit from these sessions. Many clients find that art therapy is a relaxing and enjoyable way to address some of the more complex aspects of treatment. Creative activity provides a way to process some of the stressful emotions and anxieties that can emerge during treatment. Post treatment, activities like painting or drawing, can be used throughout the individual’s life as a way to express feelings, explore creativity, and reduce stress.

According to Art Therapy: Journal of the American Art Therapy Association, clients can use artistic activities to uncover the feelings of guilt, unmanageability, or shame that led them to treatment. Zen Recovery Path therapists often use fluid media, like paint, to help clients experience the sensation of being out of control, which in turn helps them admit their need for sobriety.

In our most recent Art Therapy group session, the clients participated in a seasonal project to carve and paint a pumpkin that best suits their personality. Enjoy the gallery of photos.




Monday, October 23, 2017

weekly theme :: PERSONAL IDENTITY



You are an individual, uniquely created with a soul and spirit that has emotions, intellect and will, all residing in a human body.  


This week at Zen Recovery we will explore the concepts of what is Personal Identity —
Personal Identity is a mixed bag.  Genetics plays a small part.  Gives us some basic patterns and boundaries. We then borrow heavily from our immediate family and caregivers, making those first few neural connections hardwired.  Environment plays a factor.  As do role models, movies, characters in books we read, t.v. shows, etc.  All of these outlets we pull personality details from and apply to our own patchwork personality or identity.  But is this the real you? 

Certainly, there must be more to it.  If our personalities are a gumbo medley of odds and ends then we should be able to change our recipes at will.  Just find new ingredients and source material?  Maybe so.  Always seems harder in practice, to try to change who we are.  If we pretend to be someone or an aspect of someone long enough, will be become what we pretend to be?  Kurt Vonnegut would likely agree. 

Finally, are we our egos?  Are we multiple egos wrapped up in wads of skin and bone?  Or is there more to who we are? Who is the essential “I”?  Where did it come from?  And where is it going?

We would like for you to join our discussion, Call us at (800) 759-1930